I appreciate Facebook posts that remind the netizens that
the birth of Jesus Christ is the reason why we celebrate Christmas. While it’s
perfectly okay to plague the social media with pictures of parties attended,
gifts received, foodies prepared, movie festival entries, and the likes, I
think each Filipino Christian should focus more on the family unity part as
symbolized by the Holy Family, rather than the fun worldly activities
associated to Christmas.
Yes, I have heard it several times that it is the capitalists’
fault why we view the Christmas season in a different light. While it is not
entirely a bad thing to spend a lot during the holidays because workers receive
13th month and nth pays plus bonuses and gifts anyway, I’m just a little
sad that not all adults seem to understand WHY we have Christmas.
My motivation for writing this blog entry is my consistent
Christmas experience at the city hall for four years. I have noticed that every
year, strangers would just barge inside our office to ask for gifts or money
from the employees, and that they would roam around like supervisors going from
one table to the next. While it should be nice to give and share blessings, if almost
every day of the Christmas week you will be approached by people you don’t know,
it somehow feels disturbing for some reasons:
1.
Not all government employees receive high
salaries and a lot of them are even broke. Whenever I see people approach an
officemate who I know is struggling financially, I itch to tell the stranger “spare
him/her.” But of course it’s impolite to utter that so I just keep quiet.
2.
Government employees are not politicians. They
do public service but they are not privileged to have access to funds just like
the elected officials. Not because the politicians’ offices have readily
available gifts to share to the voters, other offices are prepared too. The
extra pay we receive is sometimes used to pay off debts or is already earmarked
for family expenses.
3.
It’s unpleasant to feel that you’re being
outsmarted. Perhaps since it is not my nature to ask money from people I don’t
know, I find their gesture too bold and uncivilized. Imagine a stranger
approaching you with palms wide open to ask for gifts or money, wouldn’t you
feel awkward? I’m quite certain that some of you would have this little voice
inside your heads saying, “Why ask money from people around when you seem to be
fit to work?”
4.
It’s painful if you’re unable to give. Who doesn’t
want to share your blessings most especially if you have more than enough? But
if you’re the type of person who always worries about fund shortage for the
bills that constantly come in, who wouldn’t be annoyed of the financial
liability right in front of your face?
This sentiment may elicit negative feedbacks because there
are really kind-hearted people who are able to share even if they’re
financially unstable. Kudos to them! In one way or another, perhaps they are
surviving just fine. But for those who really have to keep their cash flow
under careful watch, they must agree with my sentiment, hoping that the sugod-city hall folks every Christmas would
not office-hop, because they’re breaking our hearts (and our pockets) big time.
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