Life Is A Press Release

I heard my wise friend once say, “Writing is therapeutic.” Maybe this is the reason why a lot of people, including me, post dramatic status on Facebook which sooner or later we also regret. Time and experience have taught me that while we may feel “free” every time we write; we should also be responsible netizens to avoid hurting others’ feelings. Once you use the social media platform to attack other people, it is already an indication that you’re a disturbed person on your way to self-destruction.

Lately, I have been reiterating that life is all about press release and image management. I often use our unsung heroes as examples of people whose names were never published in history books because they were ordinary folks who did not have access to the print media. There could have been braver and nobler Filipinos than Rizal and Bonifacio whose contributions remained unknown, simply because their contributions were never documented. Therefore, you have to document your significance while you can because you can’t expect others to do it for you.

While some people with seemingly ill reputation would say, “I do not have to explain myself to other people,” we also have to realize that we live in a judgmental world. Whatever you do, whether good or bad, you will be prejudged anyway. So you have to use your tools wisely to portray to the world the kind of image you want others to see in you. Conceal the bad and broadcast what’s good. Hopefully, you’d get to share more positive vibes. And of course, your real friends will be happy to also see you enjoying your life. Dwell not in self-pity, but rather, realize all the gifts around you from the Lord. 

"Not Your Usual Self"
This is my team's Halloween peg for our photoshoot.
Wear the mask of your choice so you could feel good about yourself.